Many people spend a lot of their energy on a daily basis focusing on things that are out of their control. Its a quick burn out. There are things that we can control and things that we can't. I talked with a friend the other day who had one thing after another falling apart and going in directions they had no intent. It was as if there was no sense of stability , no focus and it was so overwhelming it was effecting his mood, sleep, work and relationships This picture captur